Personalised Facebook URL – got it but will it do me any good?

So I’ve just registered my personalised Facebook URL – – because I could. But, given the surge of Twitter and my recently ignited affair with tweeting, my Facebook time has dramatically reduced. Actually, I lie.  My decreased use began about a year ago when I decided I didn’t want to post personal photos of myself online or to be a victim of tagging, update my status which remained so until I bothered to change it again (the static nature of the status often became void the minute after I posted it) and yes, I do believe in conspiracy theories.

I promptly deleted many photos and asked friends not to tag me in any pics. Realising the selfishness of this request I just didn’t appear in any photos, removing myself from all photo oportunities and whilst this has worked for the most part, some do still creep through. And I know the pics I deleted are still in the FB system somewhere but I know I am not significant enough for anyone to bother digging them out of the trash.

Then, I put all but family and very close friends on limited profile disabling their ability to post on my wall. I re-set all privacy settings to ‘paranoid freak who thinks people actually care enough to stalk me’. And I think I have achieved a ‘she never does anything/go anywhere’ status by having such a neglected profile. Does this mean I’m a bad social networker?

To explain why I still actually have a FB profile, I have kept in closer touch with relatives I would otherwise see on special occasions only (pretty much just Christmas) and friends overseas. It has also been to facilitate my admin status on my workplace’s Facebook page (WordStorm PR) and the PRIA NSW New Media Group Facebook group. Facebook does still have a function and use for me but this has become quite specific. I still pick up the phone and have face to face time with the people closest to me and I still much prefer this kind of relationship.

The great things about having a FB profile are that I know what’s happening around town via event listings and invitations, I am reminded about birthdays (not that I would ever forget them) and I still get poked. On Twitter, I have developed many great new online connections (thank you Iggy Pintado) with people I would not have otherwise had access to. I have also developed my LinkedIn profile, signed up for Scribd and kept up with this blog so maybe I’m not such a bad social networker after all.

I do have an online presence that is significant in my everyday life. In my social networks I have a speaking part and I am not just a tree in the backdrop (obviously school plays were not my forte). My ‘personal brand’ is growing and developing each day with more Tweets and posts and comments I leave. My online footprint is becoming more visible through my identity as KimberleyL and Kimberleyjl when the former is not available.

So,  to answer my own question (which I am known to do from time to time), yes, having my personalised Facebook URL is a value add for my online identity. I just may become a more active Facebooker (did I make that word up?) once more if a situation calls for such activity. Having my own URL makes it easier for people to find me which I’m sure, is not a bad thing…

How is your relationship with Facebook thus far?


A quicky about Connection Generation thus far

I’m about three quarters of my way through Iggy Pintado‘s book Connection Generation and wanted to post my thoughts thus far.

Iggy Pintado defines generational groups by their experience and knowledge of connection as a communication practice enhanced and advanced by technology. Life experience based on age, which Pintado refers to as the ‘birthday connection’, enriches his five Connection Generation groups – Basic Connectors, Passive Connectors, Selective Connectors, Active Connectors, Super Connectors. Anyone and everyone can identify with one of these groups.

Easy to read and understand, Pintado provides many relatable examples to explain characteristics of each connector group. The group in which the reader sits will largely influence how insightful Connection Generation is for discovering how web 2.0, online social networks and new communication technology has created new social boundaries.

The Basic Connectors have a traditional view of connection and prefer face-to-face, telephone and letter writing to communicate. Pintado moves through each Connector group defined according to how and which communication mediums and channels are used. Pintado falls into the group with the most connections, the Super Connectors who are experts, innovators and managers of communication. This is largely achieved via online networks using web 2.0 applications and the latest technology.

I will post a final review with notes in the next few days on completion of reading. To my Twitter followers, I know I said I’d be done yesterday but the sun was too blinding bouncing off the crisp white pages to finish reading.